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Jeff Bezos Explains What It Means to Disagree and Commit

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Once you have decided whose call it is, you both still have to live with it, and this is the cleanest statement of how. Bezos describes voicing your objection fully, then backing the decision completely so the team can move. It gives you and your engineer a phrase to end a stalled stack debate without either of you feeling steamrolled.

  • You can disagree hard and still commit fully once the owner has decided.
  • Endless re-litigating of a made decision is how small teams slow to a crawl.
  • Saying 'I disagree and commit' out loud makes the buy-in explicit for both sides.

The question it answers

  1. When my technical hire and I disagree on the tech stack, whose call is it?

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