How do I 'give before I ask' when I feel like I have nothing to offer yet?
The short answer
You always have something: attention, a thoughtful intro, a piece of research, honest feedback, or just showing up and amplifying someone's work. Givers build the biggest, strongest networks over time precisely because generosity is memorable and rare, so lead with it, but protect yourself from pure takers by shifting to reciprocity when it's one-sided. The goal is to be the person others are glad to help, long before you need the help.
Go deeper, your way
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Why we picked it
The definitive research-backed case for 'give before you ask', Grant shows that generous givers, not takers, build the biggest and strongest networks and end up on top over the long run. It reframes networking from transactional favor-trading into a durable, reputation-building habit, with a clear warning about protecting yourself from pure takers.
Why we picked it
A living, India-first answer to 'where do I actually meet founders?', eChai has run founder meetups, dinners, demo days and FailCode events since 2009 across Bengaluru, Mumbai, Pune, Ahmedabad, Hyderabad and beyond. It's a concrete, low-cost way to build a founder network intentionally, especially for corporate switchers and founders building outside the big hubs.
