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Story-Based Customer Interviews Uncover Much-Needed Context

Teresa Torres · Product Talk Free Intermediate

Torres makes the single most important move concrete: instead of asking what people generally do, ask them to tell you about a specific recent time it happened. Because memory beats opinion, a real story surfaces the pain and context you would otherwise lead them toward. This is the practical heart of talking about their past, not your future.

  • Ask 'tell me about the last time', not 'do you usually'
  • Specific stories expose real behaviour, opinions hide it
  • Let the customer do most of the talking through the story

It answers 3 questions

  1. How do I talk to customers without them just telling me what I want to hear?
  2. How do I get honest answers when the person I'm interviewing is a friend or someone in my network?
  3. How do I run a customer interview without leading them to the answer I want?

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