Unlearning Is Often the Hardest Part of Growth

Unlearning Is Often the Hardest Part of Growth
September 17th was about celebration. Jatin Chaudhary, co-founder of eChai, and I were in Mumbai with a few friends from the community for the DevX IPO listing. It felt like one of those moments that belonged to more than just a company. For many of us, it was a milestone for the larger ecosystem.

The very next evening the setting shifted to the Times of India building in Fort, where eChai and Brand Capital were hosting a session on how founders are building and scaling consumer brands. Jatin was supposed to moderate, but he had to return to Ahmedabad same day, and he asked me to step in. That is how I found myself on stage with leading d2c investor and founder, Arjun Vaidya and Abhishek Daga.

Arjun built Dr. Vaidya’s into one of India’s most recognizable Ayurvedic D2C brands and now co-leads V3 Ventures. When I asked how his perspective had changed, he said, “What I thought was right as a founder isn’t always right as an investor.” It was a simple line, but it stayed with me.

Abhishek spoke about building Nasher Miles into a ₹100 crore luggage brand while staying profitable. He talked about the risks of relying too much on Meta ads, the differences between online and offline pricing, and the advantage of being early on marketplaces. At one point he said, “An advantage is an advantage. Don’t debate it, use it.”

The audience added its own depth. Founders asked questions about logistics, supply chains, last-mile delivery, and how to balance burn with profit. These were not abstract discussions. They came from people who had already tested the easy answers and were now searching for new ones.

For me, the evening tied back to my own journey. Before 58Miles, I came from traditional corporate apparel. That world moved differently. Scale came from supply relationships, offline networks, and operational depth. When I stepped into the world of new-age D2C brands, I realised how much of that experience I had to unlearn. Not everything translates. Some parts of that background help, the discipline of operations, the patience for supply chains, but other instincts can hold you back. The challenge is knowing which lessons to carry forward and which ones to leave behind.

That night in Fort reminded me again that unlearning is often the hardest part of growth. It is not always visible and it is not celebrated, but it shapes the way founders move forward.

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The eChai Effect - In Their Words

“When we launched LegalWiz.in back in 2016, concept of procuring legal and compliance services through a digital commerce platform wasn't as prominent in India. eChai played a significant role in providing the early adopters, and building significant positioning in the startup fraternity. Overtime, eChai grew to be a massive network of like-minded entrepreneurs and extended that benefit to all the members in a true "co-rise" spirit. I personally love to attend eChai events, learn from subject matter experts who share relatable and actionable insights and experiences. For startup journeys, it is so important to be surrounded by people who can add relevance, perspective, and push you to do better. Most importantly a group of people where you aren't being judged about things going right or wrong, but be a motivational force that keeps you going, yet keeping you in check. eChai is that place for me!”
Shrijay Sheth - Founder at LegalWiz.in and Hire4Higher Consulting
Shrijay Sheth
Founder at LegalWiz.in and Hire4Higher Consulting
"From late-night brainstorming over chai to early morning founder calls, eChai has been more than just a network for me; it’s been home base for ideas, impact, and inspiration. What started as a simple meetup years ago turned into a powerful movement, connecting founders, creators, and dreamers. I’ve had the privilege of seeing startups find product-market fit, marketers (like me) find unexpected collaborations, and most importantly, people finding their tribe. संगच्छध्वं संवदध्वं – Let us move together, speak together. It’s not just a verse from the Rigveda — it’s how Jatin and the entire eChai community truly operate. We don’t just network, we grow together. Forever grateful to be a part of the eChai Effect.
Jaydip Parikh - Chief Everything Officer at Tej SolPro
Jaydip Parikh
Chief Everything Officer at Tej SolPro
"eChai is playing biggest role in my personal and professional life together. Its a community where i meet like minded people to share idea and learn from their idea. Even while playing cricket i learn something and i implement something new from that learning. Its my entry point for building network in different countries where my base is not established yet. Personally my only fun activity day in a week is eChai cricket and social."
yash shah - Chairman, ES Group of Companies
yash shah
Chairman, ES Group of Companies

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