2 resources from GitLab Handbook we point founders to, and the questions each answers.
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Why we picked it
GitLab runs a fully remote company on exactly the rule your answer prescribes: every area has one named owner who holds the final say, and everyone else can weigh in but does not co-decide. It is the most operational, copy-able playbook for one clear owner per domain, written by a company that lives or dies by it. Steal the mechanic wholesale: assign the domain, name the person, and let disagreement escalate cleanly instead of stalling.
Why we picked it
This is the reference implementation of your thesis: the handbook IS the process, not a description of it. GitLab's rule that any change (policy, process, decision) gets written into the handbook before it is communicated is exactly your 'updating it is part of shipping any new process' point, made operational by a company that runs on it. Do not copy its 2000+ pages: read the handbook-first page for the discipline, then steal only its table-of-contents structure (how we work, decisions, comp, tools) as a skeleton for your one living doc.