Founder & Scenarios

Everyone around me is raising huge rounds and posting wins on LinkedIn. How do I run my own race without spiraling?

A starting point

Most of what you see is a highlight reel with the near-death months edited out, and comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone's press release is a losing game by design. Funding is an input, not an outcome, and plenty of the loudest raises quietly died. Define your own two or three metrics that mean progress for your specific business, and check those instead of the feed. Mute the accounts that spike your anxiety without teaching you anything, because your only real competitor is the version of your company that doesn't exist yet.

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Why we picked it Graham surveyed 100+ founders on what surprised them most about starting up, an honest, de-romanticized picture of the emotional rollercoaster that prepares you for the real experience.

What Startups Are Really Like

From paulgraham.com by Paul Graham medium

  • The emotional highs and lows are far more extreme than founders expect
  • It's harder and takes longer than anyone anticipates, persistence is everything
  • Your relationships with co-founders matter enormously to survival
  • Being tired and demoralized is normal; knowing that in advance builds resilience
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Why we picked it This is the practical answer to 'define your own two or three metrics.' Tabb splits numbers into vanity metrics (downloads, registered users, dollars raised: points of comparison for other people to evaluate you) and clarity metrics (the ones that actually tell you if your specific business is healthy). It even gives per-model examples: pickup time for ride-hailing, delivery speed and repeat rate for e-commerce, active minutes for software.

I'm Sorry, But Those Are Vanity Metrics

From First Round Review by Lloyd Tabb (via First Round Review) Medium read (about 15 min)

  • Vanity metrics exist to let outsiders rank you; clarity metrics exist to help you make decisions, so pick the ones that answer a real question about your business
  • The right metric is model-specific: measure the leading indicator of a happy customer (repeat purchase, pickup time, active minutes), not the biggest impressive number
  • When a number looks weird, call the actual user instead of running another dashboard: direct signal beats a feed
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Why we picked it The founder who built a profitable, bootstrapped Indian giant to over a crore customers with zero venture funding and zero marketing says out loud that he never set targets for users, revenue, or profit. His metric is simply 'get better each day in some form' over a 5 to 10 year horizon. It is the sharpest local proof that raising huge rounds is one path, not the scoreboard, and that an Anywhere Founder can quietly run their own race and win.

I'm Proud That At Zerodha We Don't Have Growth Targets

From Forbes India by Nithin Kamath (interviewed by Forbes India) Short read (about 8 min)

  • A crore-plus customers reached with no funding and no advertising: the biggest number on your feed is not the only way to build something real
  • Kamath's chosen metric is daily improvement over a 5 to 10 year horizon, not quarterly or fundraising milestones, which frees him from the pressure treadmill
  • Doing right by the customer every day, and trusting it compounds, beats chasing predetermined growth benchmarks set to impress outsiders
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