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How do I find peace and happiness while still being ambitious?

A starting point

Real happiness shows up as a side effect of peace, not of hitting the next milestone, which will just move again. Naval's core insight: desire is a contract you make to be unhappy until you get what you want, so choose your desires carefully. Ambition and equanimity aren't opposites; you build both deliberately.

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The Almanack of Naval Ravikant: A Guide to Wealth and Happiness

From navalmanack.com by Eric Jorgenson (curating Naval Ravikant) medium

Why we picked it

The clearest distillation of Naval's philosophy on wealth, leverage, and, crucially, inner peace. Free to read online, it reframes ambition and happiness for founders chasing the next milestone.

  • Real happiness comes as a side effect of peace, not from external achievement
  • Desire is a contract you make to be unhappy until you get what you want, choose desires deliberately
  • Build wealth through specific knowledge, accountability, and leverage
  • Peace comes from accepting reality and reducing internal chatter, a skill you can practice
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The Entrepreneur's Guide to Keeping Your Sh*t Together

From sherrywalling.com by Dr. Sherry Walling & Rob Walling long

Why we picked it

Written by a clinical psychologist married to a serial entrepreneur, it pairs real psychological expertise with lived founder experience, the most practical, non-preachy guide to founder mental health.

  • Concrete strategies for the freedom, responsibility, and existential fear of entrepreneurship
  • How to identify and deal with depression, anxiety, burnout, and ADHD as a founder
  • Protecting your relationships from the stress of building
  • Mental health practices tailored to founders, not generic wellness advice
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