Essay · 10 min read
Standing Invitation
Patrick McKenzie (patio11) · Kalzumeus Software Free Intermediate
Written from the receiving end by someone who gets a lot of cold email, this lays out exactly what makes an ask easy to say yes to versus what reads as an open-ended, vague favor. It reframes the vague-ask mistake as a favor to the reader, not just etiquette.
- A specific question is far easier to answer than an open request for mentorship or advice
- Keep a first email to about a paragraph and make one request, not several
- Don't apologize for emailing or minimize yourself; state your point with restrained confidence