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Stop Asking What They Want: Why Customer Discovery Is About Problems, Not Products

Frank Rimalovski · NYU Entrepreneurship Free Beginner

A clear, short explainer on why asking friends (or anyone) what they want produces false positives, and how to interview for the problem instead. It names the exact trap you fell into: reading politeness as validation. Good as a quick primer to hand a cofounder before your next round of conversations.

  • Friends and family skew positive because they want you to win
  • Interview for the problem and their current behavior, not for approval of your product
  • Genuine signal is specific past action and cost, not enthusiasm about the future
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It answers 2 questions

  1. My first 5 customers were friends who signed up to be nice. How do I know if any of them actually want the product?
  2. How do I run good discovery calls in India when the person keeps saying yes to be polite but never converts?

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