Essay

A Fundraising Survival Guide

Paul Graham Free Intermediate

This is the canonical essay on the psychology of fundraising, and it explains exactly why desperation kills your odds: 'there is nothing investors like more than a startup that seems like it's going to succeed even without them.' Reading it will change how you frame your ask, not just your sentences, because the fix for a needy-sounding email is usually a needy underlying position, not just better wording.

  • Investors are drawn to startups that look like they'll succeed with or without the money
  • Keep shipping and growing during your raise so your energy in outreach is genuinely confident, not manufactured
  • Focus your effort on the investors most likely to say yes rather than spreading thin across everyone
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The question it answers

  1. How do I write a cold email to an investor without sounding desperate?

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