📖 Book
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Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success
From adamgrant.net by Adam Grant long
Why we picked it
The definitive research-backed case for 'give before you ask', Grant shows that generous givers, not takers, build the biggest and strongest networks and end up on top over the long run. It reframes networking from transactional favor-trading into a durable, reputation-building habit, with a clear warning about protecting yourself from pure takers.
- People operate as givers, takers, or matchers; top performers are disproportionately givers.
- Givers win over time because they build better reputations, stronger relationships, and bigger networks.
- Generosity is a network strategy, not just kindness, lead with contribution before you need anything.
- Protect yourself: shift to matching (reciprocity) with people who only take, so giving stays sustainable.