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The Survival Guide to Co-Founders Living Far Apart

JT Marino and Daehee Park · Entrepreneur Free Beginner

The Tuft and Needle founders ran a distributed founding team on purpose (Palo Alto and Tempe) and wrote down exactly how they made it hold: spend the first weeks physically together, then meet monthly or bimonthly for three-day working blocks at a midpoint city, and default to written channels so neither person blocks the other. It is the rare piece that treats the distance as a first-year operating problem with a concrete cadence, not a vibe.

  • Co-locate for the first couple of weeks before you commit, then lock a recurring 3-day in-person meetup so the relationship keeps getting re-tested face to face.
  • Run the day-to-day on writing (email and chat) so decisions leave a record and no one is held hostage to a live call across time zones.
  • Build the shared checklist of the next 30 to 60 days during each in-person block, so the meetups produce a plan and not just goodwill.

The question it answers

  1. Can I find a co-founder in a different city, and how do we make a remote founding team work?

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